View Full Version : opinions? help fer a lil girl.. only if you're bored

07-03-04, 13:26
Hey kids.....

I'm not sure if this is the right place to come to with personal problems but I thought I'd give it a shot and see what opinion or advice I could get ...

It's sorta guy problems... well one guy in particular.

i like him , he likes me ... i wanna try for more , he's scared of entering onto that .. wants friends ... im cool with that but told him id rather be more than friends... ( probably my downfall there).... and I havent seen or spoken to him in a week...I do know he has been online.. well today infact because well i just know *ahem*.... and he still hasnt replied... im worried that ive come on too strong and scared him off.....

*sigh* help?

[ 07. March 2004, 13:38: Message edited by: Meep ]

07-03-04, 13:44
Sorry. I can't help you there... :(

07-03-04, 13:49
ahh thanks anyways Cato


07-03-04, 14:02
i do't think i can help u there cuz i would have no i dea wut 2 do either :( sorry

07-03-04, 20:38
I would say, just from my experiences, to back off a little.

First, try to establish a strong friendship with him. Even if it doesn't escalate into something more, at least you'll have some sort of relationship with him, which is better than where you're at at this point.

Also, it's my personal belief that to be in relationship you need to be friends as well.

Good luck! http://www.tombraiderforums.com/images/smilies/hug.gif

07-03-04, 22:24
its okay if he does just want to be friends. you never know if something will come up after wards http://www.tombraiderforums.com/images/smilies/smile.gif

he might have been a little bit scared of you wanting to be more than friends wiith him. who knows. he might not have wanted to hurt you if you guys did start something and he just wasnt in to it. because that wouldnt have been too great for either of you if he didnt like you the way you liked him and you knew that too.

just be yourself. dont try to push anything. because he might back off even more.

but i wouldnt worry too much about it tho meep. just give him some time. ;)


07-03-04, 22:42
If you ask me, it's best if you two have a strong friendship first. That way you two get to know each other better than you already know each other now. Give some time for the things that you want, maybe he's thinking about it, you never know how it's gonna end. Just be patient with him. Next time, approach the topic of "wanting to be more than friends" carefully. He was probably taken aback but that shouldn't damage the relationship that you have with him. Just think about it ok? Good luck! http://www.tombraiderforums.com/images/smilies/smile.gif

08-03-04, 02:21
hmmm I see your points kids...

thank you I guess I'll wait til he posts here again or emails me...

I think i scared him off I do really miss talking to him about utter **** lol i want that back dammit ...

Well if you guys see him posting around here today ... give him a hug... for me!

thanks again