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Anajrob
25-09-07, 13:38
I don't. :D

Just some folks from school I wouldn't call real friends. They don't mean nothing to me.

I guess I'm odd or something * shrug * :D

I started to feel that there are no frienships that are good enough. Don't know. What do you think? :D

Kamrusepas
25-09-07, 13:40
One who's been my best friend for many years now, one who I don't see that often nowadays (she's out of the country atm) and my sister who I hang out with a lot. I'm rather anti-social, I don't need that many people around me.

NemesisxAngelus
25-09-07, 13:42
No.

I talk so now and then to fellow classmates, but call them (good) friends? No thanks. Though I met some folks online and later "offline" and they turned out for me in some good friends :)

tr_mitch
25-09-07, 13:45
I have too many good real life friends, Christmas is gonna be a ***** this year. =/

mizuno_suisei
25-09-07, 13:45
Its really hard to admit to having "Good" Friends. I dont think anyone has a "best"friend. But I have alot of friends I have known since lower school who have stuck by me. I guess that they are all good friends.

nicola1986
25-09-07, 13:46
I had awful friends at 16-17 they talked about me behind my back and really made my life bad so I stopped hanging out with 'em and eventually they all moved away and now there are no people my age where I live.

My boyfriend is my best friend and I've got some family members here so it ain't too bad, I go out with Martin and his friends sometimes but that's about the only people I count as friends. He did have some friends who we hung around with often when we first met but they said awful stuff about me to him so he stopped talking to them.

I'd rather be on my own than with people who are two-faced and malicious.

Anajrob
25-09-07, 13:48
I had awful friends at 16-17 they talked about me behind my back and really made my life bad so I stopped hanging out with 'em and eventually they all moved away and now there are no people my age where I live.

My boyfriend is my best friend and I've got some family members here so it ain't too bad, I go out with Martin and his friends sometimes but that's about the only people I count as friends. He did have some friends who we hung around with often when we first met but they said awful stuff about me to him so he stopped talking to them.

I'd rather be on my own than with people who are two-faced and malicious.

Same with me. But I'm single :p

Zac Medley
25-09-07, 13:49
The best friends I have are my son and daughter. I don't really spend any time socializing with anyone else.

nicola1986
25-09-07, 13:50
If I didn't have my bf I don't think I'd have anyone, I'm different from everyone around here and I feel kinda weird lol :D

bloodstormaoa
25-09-07, 13:54
If I didn't have my bf I don't think I'd have anyone, I'm different from everyone around here and I feel kinda weird lol :D

I understand. My gf is easily my best friend.

My other friends are just "there", you know. They're all under the illusion that they know me well.....but they really know nothing about me. It's quite funny really

Anajrob
25-09-07, 13:58
I understand. My gf is easily my best friend.

My other friends are just "there", you know. They're all under the illusion that they know me well.....but they really know nothing about me. It's quite funny really

Yes - I have the same problem. They think they know me, but they actually don't and don't even want to bother to know me better :rolleyes:

nicola1986
25-09-07, 13:58
The best friends I have are my son and daughter. I don't really spend any time socializing with anyone else.

Me either. All the old people round here keep saying, 'Hello Stranger!" to me all the time, I don't even know who they are :/

My other friends are just "there", you know. They're all under the illusion that they know me well.....but they really know nothing about me. It's quite funny really

That's exactly how mine were, they didn't want to take the time to get to know the real me.

My only other friend was a guy who was just like me, I knew him from when we were kids but they teased him for hanging around with a girl and so he stopped.

bloodstormaoa
25-09-07, 14:00
Yes - I have the same problem. They think they know me, but they actually don't and don't even want to bother to know me better :rolleyes:



That's exactly how mine were, they didn't want to take the time to get to know the real me.


I know....it really ****es me off :p

Anajrob
25-09-07, 14:02
My only other friend was a guy who was just like me, I knew him from when we were kids but they teased him for hanging around with a girl and so he stopped.

My so called friends are as stupid as that.
But that guy is weak.
If he really carred about you he would hang around with you no matter what. :(

Joe_16
25-09-07, 14:03
I have some very good friends that i've known since I was about 4 years old.

nicola1986
25-09-07, 14:07
My so called friends are as stupid as that.
But that guy is weak.
If he really carred about you he would hang around with you no matter what. :(

I know what you mean, I was disappointed in him but I'm not going to get upset, I don't need the type of friend who'd leave me anyway :)

FourBalls
25-09-07, 14:07
Yeah I have good friends in real life, no best friend though :)

Anajrob
25-09-07, 14:11
I know what you mean, I was disappointed in him but I'm not going to get upset, I don't need the type of friend who'd leave me anyway :)

Well, yes. It has happened to me too many times. :( :)

knutroald
25-09-07, 14:14
I have three real friends. The rest I dont really like for some reason. Their like plan B-friends:p

Anajrob
25-09-07, 14:15
I have three real friends. The rest I dont really like for some reason. Their like plan B-friends:p

:vlol:

Legends
25-09-07, 14:17
Yes, I do. We are a group of six very close friends, and two of them are my best friends. And I have a lot of other friends too, but I'm not as close with them. My friends are very important to me, probably the most important persons in my life.

I hang with my friends pretty much every day. Sometimes we catch a movie, other times we go bowling, or just order inn a pizza. We do stuff every day, so I'm lucky to have such good friends.

Catlantean
25-09-07, 14:18
I have two and since I was never a very social person, that's enough for me :) One is my best friend from the faculty whom I see more or less every day, the other is my childhood best friend whom I don't see that often, but whose company I still enjoy.

MiCkiZ88
25-09-07, 14:18
Some, but one is in the army atm, one regurarly visits his gf in south finland and others have moved. They visit here though, and we go out on weekends when we get the chance to do so. The others are just buddies but the first two are my best mates. Sad that I can't meet them that often. =/

Sara Croft
25-09-07, 14:20
Yeah, a couple. :)
Especially one. I could jump off a mountain for her. <3

Paperdoll
25-09-07, 14:27
Yes, a few close ones but they're worth for thousands. The kind of frendship that although we've gone our separate ways after 4 years together every day, we still talk to each other every single day and have the same relationship. Couldn't ask for anything better really.

One Lara
25-09-07, 14:29
No.

Kerrigan
25-09-07, 14:36
I'd say I have good friends, but only a few.Sometimes they seem like the best friends I could ever have, but there are also times when I think they are a bit insensitive and that they neglect me.And then I feel as if I don't belong on Earth, because apart from them, I don't really have other people who I like to talk to.However, my friends are interesting and intelligent people, we have a great time together and they know me much better than most of the people I know (My classmates really don't know anything about me, for example.And most of them are incredibly bland, boring and shallow.I can't have a decent dialogue with them, maybe it's also my fault though).

CuteKittenlol
25-09-07, 14:37
I have a few good friends and a best friend...she a mug though :p

Hyper_Crazy
25-09-07, 14:38
I have a few good friends, but one is just like the bestest ever. :D

Spitfire
25-09-07, 14:46
Most of the people around me I'd call acquaintances, people I talk to to make time go by. But there is a small group, they're my amazing friends, people I do everything with and two in particular who I could call best friends after knowing them for 4 years now (They've been there for me through a lot of rough spots in my life, and I for them).

trXD
25-09-07, 14:49
Im popular and most of my freinds just follow me around like puppets! They dont realy like me there just using me for me popularity. But i have 1 good freind who is called thomas jewell and we have been freinds for 8 years!

Anajrob
25-09-07, 14:51
(My classmates really don't know anything about me, for example.And most of them are incredibly bland, boring and shallow.I can't have a decent dialogue with them, maybe it's also my fault though).

Mine too XD I couldn't said it better :tmb:

Survival
25-09-07, 14:58
Just one and he lives over 100 miles away :).

NightWish
25-09-07, 14:59
Yes I do :)

Legend of Lara
25-09-07, 15:00
There's this guy I've known since we were babies! :D We've been friends for as long as I can remember.

I also have 3 or 4 good friends at school, 2 of them are just wonderful. :hug:

ThomasCroft
25-09-07, 15:02
I have got really good friends that I can talk about anything to, but I don't go out with them at the weekend and stuff. But I'm not that bothered. I don't know what I'd do without them, really.

Hybrid Soldier
25-09-07, 15:22
I find it strange when people say 'real life friends'.

Anyways yes i do. Except they live on the east coast of Canada and i live in the middle. =/

I'm not the most sociable person, but i'm trying to get out of being like that.

Angel_14
25-09-07, 15:28
I have two best friends and I just love spending my time with them; they are crazy just like me :D

KurtisLonely
25-09-07, 15:31
I'm rather anti-social, I don't need that many people around me.
Same here, I got a few friends, and that's all I need :)
I prefer to be alone than hanging out all day with my friends =P

Angelus
25-09-07, 15:32
I have one friend who I've known since I was 7 and I can talk to him about anything. :) I consider him my "best" friend. I've also got 2 or 3 good friends.

I've got 8 or 9 general friends as well. I'm not really a social person. :)

Tomb Raider Master
25-09-07, 15:38
Yes, (and thank God) I do. I can't live without people whose company I enjoy.

Ampersand
25-09-07, 15:45
No, and I don't mind. I don't thrive off being around people like some do. My own company is much preferred.

Laurencarter
25-09-07, 15:57
I don't have really good friends. I'm kind of a cast out.

Ikas90
25-09-07, 15:59
I have two best friends who I've known since I was very young. We've done many things together as young kids, which has left me with many warm memories. We've done lots of adventuring; That's our speciality. :D

Rickéh
25-09-07, 16:12
Yes. :]

danitiwa
25-09-07, 16:15
Yes, much better than in Serbia, there were only rude, uncivilized rich children in my old school. Here people are much nicer. :wve:

List of friends:
Nina (Neener! :D)
Anna
Katarina (Kat)
Natasha (Nat)
Louise (Lulu)
Annika
Franziska (Francie)
Ariel
Noah

All great, fun, nice friends. :wve:

Elysia
25-09-07, 17:31
I used to have lots of 'friends', but as the years have gone on, my priorities have changed - I am no longer interested in being friends with people who treat me badly (and who, when it comes down to it, I don't actually like very much...), and so I now only have a few close friends whom I love and cherish a great deal :) (so much so that one of them has roped me into going camping with her and her Ranger Scout troop this weekend...:eek:)

Jiji
25-09-07, 17:37
Yes I do :) and I'm thankful for that!

Eddie Haskell
25-09-07, 17:50
I have a few good friends. Not as many as when I was in school or when I was active in the military, but more than a handful. I still see my best friend from all the way back to my grade school days all the time. He is my next door neighbor. :)

jarhead
25-09-07, 17:56
I have a few good friends, those which I can talk too about anything and always love their company. the there are friends whcih I dont see that often but are always good to keep in contact

jamieoliver22
25-09-07, 18:26
I do :D

Nemo_91
25-09-07, 18:27
Yes, i do. :p

Reggie
25-09-07, 18:32
Yeah, I do. I'm not sure I would've said the same thing before I went to college but now its much more easy for me to socialise and I'm meeting the right kind of people so its all good. :D

I like socialising in real life but equally, I like to indulge my more chatty and debate-ish kind of side here about all manner of things mainly about TR of course.

tomblover
25-09-07, 18:34
Yes, of course I have. Great friends they are, as well. :D

xcrushterx
25-09-07, 18:34
Yeah :D

I love my friends :D

Anajrob
25-09-07, 18:53
I find it strange when people say 'real life friends'.

Anyways yes i do. Except they live on the east coast of Canada and i live in the middle. =/

I'm not the most sociable person, but i'm trying to get out of being like that.

I say that only because I want to exclude online ones. For me they are really different. :)

No, and I don't mind. I don't thrive off being around people like some do. My own company is much preferred.

I'm just like that too. :D

Yes, much better than in Serbia, there were only rude, uncivilized rich children in my old school. Here people are much nicer. :wve:


That's true. Most of the time I feel that I don't belong. :p

danitiwa
25-09-07, 18:59
[B]That's true. Most of the time I feel that I don't belong. :p

I think it's after the war and all, ever since the communism died everyone's behaviour corrupted. I mean; Serbia has been through some tough times, and loads of people had to do negative things to make their way. A lot of politeness, education, etc. Declined.

That's just my theory.

Anajrob
25-09-07, 19:20
I think it's after the war and all, ever since the communism died everyone's behaviour corrupted. I mean; Serbia has been through some tough times, and loads of people had to do negative things to make their way. A lot of politeness, education, etc. Declined.

That's just my theory.

Actually it is like that. I must agree :tmb:

VonCroy360
25-09-07, 19:43
I guess I'm what you'd call a loner.
I have a lot of people I hang out with, and some that I really enjoy spending my time with, but no one I would actually tell my deepest secrets and emotions to.

:)

vespertea
25-09-07, 19:43
I guess my friends are alright. They could be better... I see friendships between other people, and their bonds are so strong -- yet the bond between me and my friends is so weak. I think I could strengthen these bonds if I really wanted to, but, it's my last year of high school and I'll probably never see these people again. I just don't know if it's worth even attempting.

Anajrob
25-09-07, 19:50
I guess my friends are alright. They could be better... I see friendships between other people, and their bonds are so strong -- yet the bond between me and my friends is so weak. I think I could strengthen these bonds if I really wanted to, but, it's my last year of high school and I'll probably never see these people again. I just don't know if it's worth even attempting.

My thoughts exactly! :p

Aria
25-09-07, 19:52
Yeah i have really good mates love em'!! :hug:

da tomb raider!
25-09-07, 19:53
Probably not... :pi:

Cord_Croft
25-09-07, 20:08
I have one best friend, she's so awesome, I tell her all my problems, we have so many good times.

But then again, I enjoy my own company.

Beanz
25-09-07, 20:12
Yes, My best friends Jake, Ellen.... And I'd rather not go on, but yes, they mean alot to me

Legend 4ever
25-09-07, 20:20
I must say I don't know. Sometimes when you think someone is your real friend you really get depressed when you later realise he/she isn't. That is why I am waiting, the time will show who our real friends are.

I currently have two best friends.

Angelus
25-09-07, 20:21
I do enjoy my own company. I get to what I choose to do - I don't have to entertain and keep someone else happy.

Melonie Tomb Raider
25-09-07, 21:22
My closest friends areout of state. I've moved so often and have only been where I'm at now for a little over a year. I have friends here, but no really close friends. Unless my brothers count. We're really close in age and have just about everything in common, so it's like I live with two super close friends and see them everyday. It's great! They're loads of fun to be around, and we never argue.


Family aside, I don't socialoize that much. I like to spend my free time talking to my wonderful boyfriend on the phone. He's my real best friend. :hug:

Lenochka
25-09-07, 21:25
I guess, Not many though... Most are just kind of friends who i don't really trust with most i have to say, But there are a select few who i can tell anything and trust them with anything which is why there kind of placed way higher then the rest.

Dakaruch
25-09-07, 22:54
well i do have quite a list of them... :p

my last year on high school(12th year) my class was composed by guys only, since we were the Physics class... i had some good mates from my previous class there, but most of them were new... we were 18 in total!
we didn't knew each others well, but when we started talking to each others, we get all very close and best friends! we always went to the same places, we all gathered around in our school bar, and we only did stupid things there, like moving the furniture and etc... it was the best class i ever had!
my best friends are they, and i miss them all a lot, and especially all the stupid stuff we made :vlol:

erosan
25-09-07, 23:01
i do and i love them dearly =]
I have one best friend i've known for 5 years. then i have a group at school, 6 us, we are really good friends, but with graduation next year, we wont be seeing each other every day anymore =/

ajrich17901
25-09-07, 23:17
I have a select few i actualy trust id say as of now i have 3 good friends that i wouldnt change the world for:jmp:

mattlsu
25-09-07, 23:43
I have a few friends, but I don't see them much outside of school. I'm always with my girlfriend, who basically is my best friend, or occupied with school work.

CroftScionGuard
26-09-07, 00:08
Today I got proof that I really have friends! Old friends forgot old atrits we had, and newer friends come to support me too.

Little-Lara
26-09-07, 01:06
Hard to tell. Not real close ones. so just normal people I see sometimes... that's all.:(

Twilight
26-09-07, 02:54
I don't. :D

Just some folks from school I wouldn't call real friends. They don't mean nothing to me.

I guess I'm odd or something * shrug * :D

I started to feel that there are no frienships that are good enough. Don't know. What do you think? :D

i met 2 really cool ppl in middle school and we're still friends. ive probly run out of stuff to tell them being that theyre probly the only ones who really know me.

star-dust
26-09-07, 05:30
I am one of those people who don't have any 'true' friends.

I know people, but none of them are the people who I would want to hang around with and such or would ask me randomly.

I don't know why, I do sometimes feel as if I don't belong. But it's high school and I figure once I get out and go to College or University I will meet more people and perhaps make friends. :)

I guess I need to socialize more, but it can be so hard!:confused:

Anajrob
26-09-07, 11:40
I am one of those people who don't have any 'true' friends.

I know people, but none of them are the people who I would want to hang around with and such or would ask me randomly.

I don't know why, I do sometimes feel as if I don't belong. But it's high school and I figure once I get out and go to College or University I will meet more people and perhaps make friends. :)

I guess I need to socialize more, but it can be so hard!:confused:

I feel the same. :( Sometimes I feel bad about it, but then when I remember those fools from my class :D then I'm happy for not socialising with them :p