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lillyc
25-09-07, 15:37
I just noticed that my friends don't care at all about my feelings,opinion etc.:(My old best friend doesn't even wait for me anymore when we eat.I wait her all the time but no.She just goes with the other girls.Is it because I am not like them.Interesed in make-up,boys,music etc.I am interesed in video games,Harry Potter,Tomb Raider etc.They do not even notice I'm there looking at them how they talk about their cell phones.All this and the school that I hate.It is driving me mad.:hea:Any advice please?:(:(:(:(:(

Tomb Raider Master
25-09-07, 15:40
If that's what they do, they're not your real friends, and they will probably never accept you unless you start to do/like things they do. I'm sure there are other girls with same interests as you and with who you could make great friends. You just need to take a better look at some people, that's all. ;)

Alex Fly
25-09-07, 15:43
I second that. Your 'friends' doesn't deserve your friendship if they don't care about you.
Don't be sad. I'm sure you'll find better friends. :hug:

Draco
25-09-07, 15:50
Get new friends.

Ampersand
25-09-07, 15:50
^ What they said - those people aren't good friends to you at all, so don't bother with them. Try finding people who actually share your interests instead. =)

Legend of Lara
25-09-07, 15:51
If that's what they do, they're not your real friends, and they will probably never accept you unless you start to do/like things they do. I'm sure there are other girls with same interests as you and with who you could make great friends. You just need to take a better look at some people, that's all. ;)

I second that. Your 'friends' doesn't deserve your friendship if they don't care about you.
Don't be sad. I'm sure you'll find better friends. :hug:

Get new friends.

Yes, yes and yes. I've landed in the situation that my so-called "friends" start blocking me out. Solution: Screw them! :D

Joe_16
25-09-07, 15:54
I've seen this happen with alot of people. One minute your best mates and then they find new friends and push you aside.

lillyc
25-09-07, 16:02
Thank you all guys!:hug::hug::hug::hug::gki:

Ikas90
25-09-07, 16:05
As many others have said, you should find someone who will accept you as a friend no matter what. And if they have the same interests as you, that would be good.

I'm here on TRF to socialise with others who like what I like. :) Of course, not everyone likes the exact same TR game that I do, but I still accept them as friends.

gotha-666
25-09-07, 17:09
that happended 2 me since i was in grade 1, until grade 5, and the i went to an australian school, and now im in grade 6, and all of them love me :D, dont worry, if they dont like u, it means they're not REAL friends, i think that u can find someone who apricietes u :jmp: and remember, u have us !! :hug::gki:

troy tr
26-09-07, 08:35
Find your TRUE friends. They are out there for you. :)

RAID
26-09-07, 08:38
I would tell you to ditch them. It's not like you're living or even having fun when you';re with them. I'd rather be alone than feel left out and ignored. The sooner you ditch them, the sooner you can find better friends. You never know when they might show up.

Just act friendly and don't be shy around new people. Then you'll get to know someone who might have your very own interests, and that's were it begins.