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Melonie Tomb Raider
01-04-04, 07:08
Hey, I'm still trying to help scoobyjo out with her boy trouble. I'm sure you read her post about how she isn't sure if the guy she likes is flirting because he is interested or just for fun. Any way, I thought I'd give an example of when guys are interested but I don't know if this example is 100 % true this is just an observation of mine, so only you men would know haha. Any way, I have noticed that guys will sometimes stand right beside the girl they like. Even if they aren't tlaking. I knew this one guy who liked a girl and I noticed ge did that a lot to her. He didn't just stand kinda beside her, I mean like right by her where their arms were practically toching. I know a guy that liked me in the past would always stand right next to me like that and that's one of the reasons I found out he liked me. Any way, what I need to know is if this observation is true or not? Do you guys really do this in a flirting way or do you jus tstand beside some one like that without noticing? If this is true then if the guy you like stands beside you like that then it's a good sign Scoobyjo. ;) http://www.tombraiderforums.com/images/smilies/thumb.gif

Scottlee
01-04-04, 08:18
Yeah that means he likes her. He can't think of much to say so for the time being he just wants to be spotted by her, at least that's my take on it. I'd probably do that tactic myself if I was in a nightclub and the music was too loud for conversation.

the croft woman!
01-04-04, 08:19
I think it's true! When G was with his ex he always stood like that by me when me and mates went to see him, and now we are going out and are in love, no way is it just coincidence time and time again! He also admitted he really liked me when he was with his ex, but werent sure i felt the same!

Scottlee
01-04-04, 08:22
Mind you, if the nightclub (or whatever) is only four foot by four foot squared, tell your friend not to count her chickens just yet.

Melonie Tomb Raider
01-04-04, 14:02
Wow, I can't believe it, my observations were true! Now I'm so proud of myself!! http://www.tombraiderforums.com/images/smilies/tongue.gif haha. I've been curious for ages whether or not this was true because I have noticed guys do that a lot. Thanks for comfirming that for me so I know now. And that's great to hear how well your relationship is going croft woman. http://www.tombraiderforums.com/images/smilies/thumb.gif

the croft woman!
01-04-04, 14:07
http://www.tombraiderforums.com/images/smilies/hug.gif Thanks hun http://www.tombraiderforums.com/images/smilies/hug.gif
We've had our first argument :( was horrible! But we love each other so much now http://www.tombraiderforums.com/images/smilies/hug.gif

Dont you think men are strange? They have weird ways of showing a girl theyre into them!

Melonie Tomb Raider
01-04-04, 14:08
Ok I havey et another question. I was just telling scoob all of this and I just realized, " What is she supposed to do if he does this?" Seriously though, what do you guys want us girls to do when you stand next to us like that? Just stand there with you? Start a convo? What? :confused:

NatEcho
01-04-04, 14:53
Oooh!!!!!!! Education!!!!

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laracroft8290
01-04-04, 14:54
Originally posted by NatEcho:
Oooh!!!!!!! Education!!!!

http://www.tombraiderforums.com/images/smilies/jumper.gif See TRF is not just about TR, you can actually learn something worthwhile here http://www.tombraiderforums.com/images/smilies/tongue.gif

NatEcho
01-04-04, 14:57
It's like it prepairs you for real life! You know, when you actually leave the house... Ring a bell? Anyone?? :confused:

laracroft8290
01-04-04, 14:59
Originally posted by NatEcho:
It's like it prepairs you for real life! You know, when you actually leave the house... Ring a bell? Anyone?? :confused: lol! so true! http://www.tombraiderforums.com/images/smilies/jumper.gif

justin
01-04-04, 17:20
If i flirt I do it subconsciously http://www.tombraiderforums.com/images/smilies/tongue.gif

Draco
01-04-04, 18:16
I'm a Scorpius, nothing subtle about my flirting... http://www.tombraiderforums.com/images/smilies/whistle.gif

scoobyjo19
02-04-04, 00:12
I feel like im the subject of a science project!
I didnt notice this topic untill now so thx Mel!
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(guys are so confusing)

NatEcho
02-04-04, 01:07
I'm doing a special report on you Scoob. It's due Monday. Care to share your deepest thoughts?

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Fugitive Lara
02-04-04, 01:29
I object to ur observations melonie http://www.tombraiderforums.com/images/smilies/mischievous.gif

how can standing closely behind someone be classed as flirting? :confused: Sounds like stalking if u ask me ;)

Fugitive Lara
02-04-04, 01:34
natalia we must stop meeting like this http://www.tombraiderforums.com/images/smilies/flirt.gif

now that's flirting http://www.tombraiderforums.com/images/smilies/pillow.gif

Draco
02-04-04, 01:35
Originally posted by FuGiTiVe LaRa:
I object to ur observations melonie http://www.tombraiderforums.com/images/smilies/mischievous.gif

how can standing closely behind someone be classed as flirting? :confused: Sounds like stalking if u ask me ;) You are correct in a fashion...

Unless interaction is happening flirting isnt happening, mere presence could mean anything...

Fugitive Lara
02-04-04, 01:39
maybe she had bird poop on her shoulder and he was simply observing it http://www.tombraiderforums.com/images/smilies/whistle.gif
having a laugh at her behind her back, literally. http://www.tombraiderforums.com/images/smilies/privateeye.gif

galaxia2999
02-04-04, 02:01
wow i'm gonna go to school tomorrow and hunt for flirting guys...

swimfanc42tr
02-04-04, 02:14
Me too Galaxia!! LOL! http://www.tombraiderforums.com/images/smilies/clown.gif

[ 02. April 2004, 03:15: Message edited by: swimfanc42tr ]

Melonie Tomb Raider
02-04-04, 08:30
Ok.. I guess I need to get into more detail with what i meant because some people got mixed up. I have seen a lot of guys do this but not in a stalker type of way, because when the girls liked them it seemed like they liked that. Let me give you an example. This guy liked this girl and they were playing baseball with all these other people they knew. Well, they were talking a little bit, and as they were walking back he stood right next to her and walked next to her. I don't mean out of no where this guy stands right next to you, not that would be stalker like haha. What I meant is if a guy that the girl may be talking to a little or hanging out with stands right next to her. I have seen in a lot, and that's one way I found out this guy liked this one girl. Scottlee
Member # 4827 posted 01. April 2004 09:18
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Yeah that means he likes her. He can't think of much to say so for the time being he just wants to be spotted by her, at least that's my take on it. I agree with Scottlee there. Well, that's what my impression of what that was any way, and he seemed to confirm it. I could be wrong though. Any way, I noticed that some guys like standing next to girls they are interested in but since I am not a guy, I don't understand what they want the girl to do. Just stand there? Start a convo? I've been so curious about this for ages and I could never figure it out. lol. Maybe I should take a class on Psychology. http://www.tombraiderforums.com/images/smilies/tongue.gif

[ 02. April 2004, 09:42: Message edited by: Melonie Tomb Raider ]

Melonie Tomb Raider
02-04-04, 08:33
Oh I have to confirm something else too. Unless interaction is happening flirting isnt happening, mere presence could mean anything... I agree with that, and I probably should have gone into more detail on my first topic. From what I have seen, guys usually don't stand right next to a girl in that fashion UNLESS they have already been flirting a little before. lol, I think I should have made this more clear from the beginning, sorry about that guys. how can standing closely behind someone be classed as flirting? Sounds like stalking if u ask me I said beside not behind Fug. http://www.tombraiderforums.com/images/smilies/tongue.gif Now I could totally understand your point if it was behind, that's stalker like. http://www.tombraiderforums.com/images/smilies/mischievous.gif

[ 02. April 2004, 09:36: Message edited by: Melonie Tomb Raider ]

Duffman
02-04-04, 12:34
wanna know how to tell if a guy likes you?..

Ask him...

If he says "um... no", he probably actually does... http://www.tombraiderforums.com/images/smilies/whistle.gif

Most Guys are too clueless and dont even know if they are flirting... lol... http://www.tombraiderforums.com/images/smilies/tongue.gif