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gerencen
25-12-10, 11:15
i am American lady and i have a guy that i chat with and his mood changes often, he seems to need to always be in charge. at first when we started chatting, he was very kind. then as the year has past , he has become quiet bossy.

Apathetic
25-12-10, 11:16
Ummmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm what?

digitizedboy
25-12-10, 11:17
Find a new fella.

Mikky
25-12-10, 11:18
Maybe he's sexist? http://forums.macresource.com/smileys/dunno.gif

Such a random topic, btw. :p

Merry Christmas, TRF. :)

jackles
25-12-10, 11:31
and you have spoken to how many indian guys? :confused:

Apathetic
25-12-10, 11:32
and you have spoken to how many indian guys? :confused:

Lmao!

Dark Lugia 2
25-12-10, 11:42
I have an idea of what you mean. In Indian culture the man of the relationship is 'the boss' =/ Of course this doesnt apply to all Indian men, but I'd say it applied to most who are big on their culture

voltz
25-12-10, 12:03
If he's just someone you chat with, it's probably a good time to cut him off. On the other hand if he's anyone you do business with/work for etc, then he's got that higher authority mentality he's rolling you over with. I know exactly how that thought process works and some people could really use a good whoopin for pulling that.

jackles
25-12-10, 12:06
Thing is...there are lot of guys/gals who are bossy from all colours and creeds. Different cultures have different attitudes.

digitizedboy
25-12-10, 12:08
Well said. It kinda annoys me actually when someone judges a whole race because of their experiences with one person. :hea:

NRO.
25-12-10, 12:11
Am I the only one who thinks that this is a bot?

Dark Lugia 2
25-12-10, 12:13
Am I the only one who thinks that this is a bot?

I thought at too, when I saw the postcount. :p But I've never seen a bot complain about Indian men

Rai
25-12-10, 12:24
Am I the only one who thinks that this is a bot?

I thought at too, when I saw the postcount. :p But I've never seen a bot complain about Indian men

Bots are getting cleverer with their posts :pi: Even so, it's a slightly way odd intro to the forum - with no follow up. *shrugs*

I think it's a cultural thing. I have a friend who's Indian husband is bossy, or it could be an individual thing. If this man is a a friend, then maybe you should say something, maybe he'll re-think. But if you're not happy and you've tried talking to him, it may be time to reconsider the friendship.

snork
25-12-10, 12:43
Well said. It kinda annoys me actually when someone judges a whole race because of their experiences with one person. :hea:
I think to know what you mean, but why ,when people talk about culture/s, feel the need to bring "race" into the talk.

I don't know how many various cultures (or races) there are in India. Hundreds ?

digitizedboy
25-12-10, 12:46
man don't be so pedantic! She's talking about a nationality? not a culture, is she not?

Your_Envy*
25-12-10, 13:03
Girl, this is Tomb Raider forums, not Cosmopolitan. :p

scoopy_loopy
25-12-10, 13:12
I don't find Indian guys bossy at all. Just how many have you spoken with? It's an incredible stereotype you're trying to pull off. :P

Ampersand
25-12-10, 13:19
Bot, what are you trying to sell? IDGI.

Mikky
25-12-10, 13:23
Why is this thread still open? It's so ridiculous. D:

Paddy
25-12-10, 13:27
Girl, this is Tomb Raider forums, not Cosmopolitan. :p

Whats the difference these days :p

tranniversary119
25-12-10, 13:29
Girl, this is Tomb Raider forums, not Cosmopolitan. :p

Right? I understand it's their first post but... you signed up on here for all the wrong reasons ;)

Mikky
25-12-10, 13:32
Surprise, surprise, going off topic already. That's just so unexpected. :rolleyes:

Paddy
25-12-10, 13:33
Surprise, surprise, going off topic already. That's just so unexpected. :rolleyes:

Did you not just say the thread should be closed or why is it still open to be precise? :p

Mikky
25-12-10, 13:35
Did you not just say the thread should be closed or why is it still open to be precise? :p

Yes. And? :p

CerebralAssassin
25-12-10, 14:13
obvious troll is obvious

Love2Raid
25-12-10, 14:26
Guess who just won the Most Random First Post of the Year award?

cezy rockeru
25-12-10, 14:27
^That's a hard one:vlol:

Sgt BOMBULOUS
25-12-10, 14:28
Was it him?

http://www.gremlingrill.com/apu.jpg

knightgames
25-12-10, 15:37
i am American lady and i have a guy that i chat with and his mood changes often, he seems to need to always be in charge. at first when we started chatting, he was very kind. then as the year has past , he has become quiet bossy.


Little penis.


Well you asked. :p

robwolf666
25-12-10, 16:20
i am American lady and i have a guy that i chat with and his mood changes often, he seems to need to always be in charge. at first when we started chatting, he was very kind. then as the year has past , he has become quiet bossy.
Maybe he's compensating for having a small penis.

robwolf666
25-12-10, 16:20
Little penis.


Well you asked. :p
Haha, great minds think alike.

Lara Croft!
25-12-10, 16:22
Girl, this is Tomb Raider forums, not Cosmopolitan. :p

That's what I thought when I saw the post count.

Your first post in TRF is this?

Seriously, do you even like the games?

robwolf666
25-12-10, 16:23
That's what I thought when I saw the post count.

Your first post in TRF is this?

Seriously, do you even like the games?
Maybe solo games....

Mr.Burns
25-12-10, 16:25
Normally I would have something witty or deep to say about the closing of this thread but, I don't. I don't get it. It's an odd one to be sure but the spamming, well, nothing new here either. :rolleyes:

Closed.