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abdul wahab
09-08-11, 11:12
Who is more important for you out of the two?

1- Best Friend
2- True Lover

FloTheMachine
09-08-11, 11:13
I don't have a True Lover, so I'll go for best friend. :p

abdul wahab
09-08-11, 11:15
I don't have a True Lover, so I'll go for best friend. :p

Same ;)

Ikas90
09-08-11, 11:17
A true lover should be your best friend.

Archetype
09-08-11, 11:18
a true lover should be your best friend.

amen brother!

Weemanply109
09-08-11, 11:22
Both?

Carbon
09-08-11, 11:27
I don't have a True Lover, so I'll go for best friend. :p

Ditto!.

scoopy_loopy
09-08-11, 11:44
Preferably my theoretical future true lover would also be my best friend.

Underhoe
09-08-11, 11:44
A true lover should be your best friend.

Preferably my theoretical future true lover would also be my best friend.

Yesh.

digitizedboy
09-08-11, 11:53
Never had either, but I guess true lover would be more important as it's the person you'll put up with until the rest of your days. (supposedly)

Lenochka
09-08-11, 11:56
Lovers come and go ('true love' rarely turns out to be the case from all I've seen over the years :p), but a best friend is always the one there to help you pick up the pieces after it all falls apart. So I'd go with Best Friend.

xXhayleyroxXx
09-08-11, 12:20
Your true love should be your best friend -- they're one and the same.

Linoshi Croft
09-08-11, 12:21
A true lover should be your best friend.

This.

remote91
09-08-11, 12:21
Can't have one over the other.

Saman
09-08-11, 12:27
Your true love should be your best friend -- they're one and the same.

This :) Thats very sweet Hayley, I saved this.

xXhayleyroxXx
09-08-11, 12:29
Oops, just noticed Saki said that first. My bad :vlol:

peeves
09-08-11, 12:33
Best friend for me.

Saman
09-08-11, 12:33
Oops, just noticed Saki said that first. My bad :vlol:

lol! Okay, for me I prefer both, because they both are important to me, my love and my best friend stay 4ever in my life, couldn't pick one of them, so keep them both!

Isaac
09-08-11, 12:33
Lovers come and go ('true love' rarely turns out to be the case from all I've seen over the years :p), but a best friend is always the one there to help you pick up the pieces after it all falls apart. So I'd go with Best Friend.

Your true love should be your best friend -- they're one and the same.

This.

Logically, you get friends before getting a true lover, so you've been having your bestfriend way before finding love.
It happened too often to me that many of my good friends stopped talking to me after getting in relationship, somewhat too busy or too obsessed with their lover, so I don't want to do the same.

TippingWater
09-08-11, 12:34
Never had either, but I guess true lover would be more important as it's the person you'll put up with until the rest of your days. (supposedly)

:tmb:

marceepaniq
09-08-11, 12:39
I'm only 15, I didn't meet my true lover, so I'l let you know in 10 years. :pi:

trXD
09-08-11, 12:49
I don't have a true love but if I did I wouldn't dream of putting one before the other, as far as I'm concerned both relationships are for life.

jarekhanzelka
09-08-11, 12:52
I can't help but think that having the best friend in your true love is a myth. My best friend is a girl, we've been in this status for a few years now and never once did either of us come to consider taking it further. We both know it would bury the friendship. Besides, we don't even attract eachother that way so we're covered.

As for the true love, I haven't had any yet, but I can imagine a scenario where my true love and I have issues and I need my best friend to talk to about it. I need a best friend to go unreasonably nuts with, to do and talk about things I could never do or talk about with my love partner. Ergo, I need both, but I need them seperated. Actually scratch that, I don't need true love so long I have my best friend. I honestly couldn't be happier where I am atm.

abdul wahab
09-08-11, 13:28
Your true love should be your best friend -- they're one and the same.

Sure :)

I'm only 15, I didn't meet my true lover, so I'l let you know in 10 years. :pi:

In 10 years? :eek:

EgyptianSoul
09-08-11, 13:44
My lover is my best friend. Has been for years now. :) Don't quite understand how it happened.

This kind of a question isn't as black and white as it may seem.

Even your best friend can betray you if it benefits him/her. That's my experience at least.

But a best friend can be a lover at the same time and the other way around.

Delamo1999
09-08-11, 13:56
A true lover should be your best friend.

I agree. Mine is my best friend. :)

sandygrimm
09-08-11, 14:21
Both in one! I don't have a separate best friend! she's just someone I kill time with and neurons and nerves. :p
:hug: but my best friend is my love! I hope :pi:

Sgt BOMBULOUS
09-08-11, 14:47
A true lover should be your best friend.

This is exactly what I would have said. My wife and I have been best friends from almost the beginning.

peeves
09-08-11, 14:47
A true lover can be someone's best friend at times but not usually.

larafan25
09-08-11, 16:49
Me, my best friend. :hug:

Snazabaz
09-08-11, 17:14
I think both are equally as important. Sure, your lover should be your best friend too, but, for me, it's always been important to have someone else to talk to :)

Nenya awakens
09-08-11, 17:17
My true love would also be my best friend, but it doesn't hurt to have a 2nd best friend :p

TheRCroft
09-08-11, 17:21
A true lover should be your best friend.

Completely this.
At least mine is :p

Lara Coft Baby
09-08-11, 17:22
I don't have a True Lover, so I'll go for best friend. :p

Ditto, i don't currently have a true love so my best friend

Linoshi Croft
09-08-11, 17:32
Completely this.
At least mine is :p

I agree with this <3

Avalon SARL
09-08-11, 17:32
A true lover should be your best friend.

This; your true lover should be your best friend; what for will you be loving him/her if you aren't going to be friends in the first place

robbie_rawr
09-08-11, 18:50
1- Best Friend
2- True Lover

Are the same thing. :D

jackles
09-08-11, 18:52
As a lot of people have said...


They should be one and the same. But doesn't hurt to have some fab best friends to care about. :)

robm_2007
09-08-11, 20:12
i don't have a best friend nor a true lover (or a false lover for that matter), so....

Neither?

MiCkiZ88
09-08-11, 20:18
My true love is also my best friend in a way, even though I have couple of other good friends, my one and only comes first.

irishhips
09-08-11, 20:23
Family
Best friends (you can trust)

dizzydoil
09-08-11, 20:24
1- Best Friend
2- True Lover


Are the same thing. :D

Ditto. :hug:

leglion
09-08-11, 20:28
Three people: me, myself, and I. If i never told you i like you, you can go slob on a nob and burn. Deadass though. :pi:

scremanie
09-08-11, 20:36
Best friend.

klona
09-08-11, 20:47
Who is more important for me in my life?
The answer is quite simple.
Myself.
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and every person in this forum. :hug:

Rai
09-08-11, 23:05
Who is more important, best friend or true love to me? I dunno. I'll let you know when I have either. :p

Dark Lugia 2
09-08-11, 23:14
Best friend. Though I dont know what having a true lover is like.