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Catapharact
21-05-06, 14:12
LMAO!!! Well all I can say is me got the "All-in-one" package ;). Well except the first part Lol!


5 women every guy's gotta date
By Jonathan Small

Before settling down, these are the gals every man should date. Why? For the connection you two feel, of course, but also for the relationship lessons each one will teach you.

With so many amazing women out there, how do you know which one is right for you? The honest truth is, you don’t really—that is, unless you get out there and date. “Men should experience dating many different types of women before they settle down,” says Gilda Carle, Ph.D., a New York-based relationship expert. “The more relationship skills you learn and the more experiences you have, the more prepared you’ll be when true love finally comes.” So, allow us to present five women you really should date before you say, “I do.” Of course, no one is saying you should go through life with a little checklist titled “Women to Date,” but spending time getting to know and appreciate these women can be a wonderful thing. Here, a look at who they are and why you should go out with them.

Type #1: The Older Woman

If you haven’t tried dating up the age chain, you don’t know what you’ve been missing. Mature women have been places, seen things, and have a sophistication and wisdom that you, my young friend, can—and should—soak up like a sponge. “Older women know who they are and what they want,” explains Dr. Gilda. Spend time with one and you’ll gain a terrific perspective on life, and realize that being a desirable woman doesn’t mean being a woman younger than you are. Says Patrick Hayden of Seattle, WA, “I definitely recommend dating an older woman. I dated one when I was 19 and she was 30, and what she taught me carries over to this day.” While a knowledge of wine, travel and the human condition are usually par for the course, so is something else: a tutorial on how to please a woman in bed. “The older woman I dated was like a sex mentor to me. She taught me absolutely everything I know,” recalls Patrick.

Type #2: The Guy’s Girl

Every guy needs to experience that rare breed of gal who looks and talks like a woman, but loves sports, beer, and action flicks—in short, who acts like a guy. Evan Silver is dating this type right now and couldn’t be happier about it: “She’s a hot woman who plays rugby and encourages me to hang out with my guy friends,” he says. The guy’s girl is often so similar to you that you forget to censor yourself around her—a good thing, according to Dr. Gilda, because it causes you to be more comfortable around women in general. “You’ll let your guard down more, just as you would around your guy friends,” she says. “You’ll learn that women can offer you friendship that you don’t have to reserve for your own gender.” We’re not saying you’ll be staging belching contests with all your future loves, but you will realize that there’s no reason to walk on eggshells around the person you’re dating. You can just be yourself—which is all women want anyway.

Type #3: The Free Spirit

This girl always stops to smell the roses. Think Drew Barrymore, Goldie Hawn, Claire from Six Feet Under. She’s totally creative, spiritual, spontaneous—maybe a tad ditzy—and she relies more on instinct and inspiration than reason and good planning. Why is this good for you? Because let’s face it: Guys are goal-oriented. We like game plans and spreadsheets; road maps and instruction manuals. That’s why sometimes we need a free spirit to fly into our lives and shake us free of our rigid ways. “A woman like this can tap a man’s creativity in ways no one else has,” says Dr. Gilda. “She shows him that not everything has to be perfect or planned.” Michael Pagliughi of Ocean City, NJ, concurs. He considers himself a tad uptight—and says that his art-student girlfriend taught him to chill. “She took me to some underground art galleries, had me stay up to the wee hours even when I had to work the next day,” he recalls. The spontaneity she taught him has carried over into other relationships. “She really helped me discover a more romantic, creative side of myself,” he says. “Now I’m much more likely to meet a date somewhere unexpected or surprise her with flowers."

Type #4: The Brainy Chick

In the dating game, looks often trump intelligence—guys go for hotties rather than girls who can stand their ground in a heated debate. This is really a shame, since not only can the sharp ones keep your mind from turning to putty, they can help you appreciate all facets of a woman and even handle those times in your life when you don’t know it all. “Men are so often intimidated by smart women—they have vulnerable egos and never want to feel as if any woman is showing them up,” says Dr. Gilda. Sure, dating a woman who can beat you at chess or argue circles around you about Middle East politics might be a bit of a blow to your ego at first, but ultimately, you’ll grow from it. Michael of Austin, TX, recalls his brainy ex-girlfriend this way: “She taught me how to debate with the best of them. I had to bring something to the table or she’d get bored. She challenged me in a way I wasn’t used to and that felt great.”

Type #5: The Seductress

Every man fantasizes about dating a girl who has an, um, healthy libido and is extremely creative in bed. The good news: These girls actually exist—and if you date one, you’ll be a much better man for it. But it’s not for the reason you might think. Says Dr. Gilda, “Every guy needs to get this type of girl out of his system. Because he’ll quickly realize that sex alone cannot sustain a relationship.” Evan can relate; he dated a girl who lived and breathed sex. “It was cool at first,” he recalls. But soon he began to want something more. “There was nothing else there, no romance and not much conversation,” he says. “I realized the only connection we had was sexual.” Evan has since moved on from the seductress, but he learned a ton. Sure, hot sex still ranks high on his wish list, but now he also wants a girl he can also really relate to and bond with. And that’s a very valuable lesson.

Shark_Blade
21-05-06, 15:38
I'm dating someone younger at the moment. A year younger.

She fusses too much sometimes but I guess that's what girls are:D And sometimes when I'm quite she said we don't have communication and understanding. I mean it's gotta be hard for me to cope up and talk for hours like she do.

Normally she gossips. :rolleyes:
I think it's true now that guys will prefer to play video games with their friends rather than go out on a date with a girl. lmao :vlol:

Metaldud
21-05-06, 17:18
I'm basically the only person on here who has never dated EVEN ONCE. Not one date. And quite frankly I'm not expecting to ever date or get into any kind of relationship. But I'm not letting it get to me, I've basically accepted it, and I have more important things to worry about, like my family's well being.

Laras Backpack
21-05-06, 17:23
I'm basically the only person on here who has never dated EVEN ONCE. Not one date.
I'm almost 20 and I've never dated. :)
There's no time limit on when you can start dating.

LMAO!!! Well all I can say is me got the "All-in-one" package
LOL! Lucky you Cat! :D

Janny
21-05-06, 17:24
I'm basically the only person on here who has never dated EVEN ONCE. Not one date. And quite frankly I'm not expecting to ever date or get into any kind of relationship. But I'm not letting it get to me, I've basically accepted it, and I have more important things to worry about, like my family's well being.
Nope, your not the only one.

Lavinder
21-05-06, 17:27
Hehehe Interesting read!

A guys gotta date me because I can be:

Type #1: The Older Woman <-- well maybe it your young enough :p
Type #2: The Guy’s Girl <--- I'm more of a geeky boys girl, not football and stuff :p
Type #3: The Free Spirit :p

Type #4: The Brainy Chick <---- I am sort of brainy, im in one of the top sets ;)
Type #5: The Seductress <---- :mis: but i'm not all sex, I like relationship too ... :pi:

CerebralAssassin
21-05-06, 17:28
I'm basically the only person on here who has never dated EVEN ONCE. Not one date. And quite frankly I'm not expecting to ever date or get into any kind of relationship. But I'm not letting it get to me, I've basically accepted it, and I have more important things to worry about, like my family's well being.
raise your chin that's no way to be talking...of course you will find someone who will want you for who you are :D

Lavinder
21-05-06, 17:31
Theres somone out thier for anyone.

Even if one is the most repulsive person in the world there is somone out there that will love them :)

Well thats what I keep telling myself anyway :p

But I think i've found my hunny :)

Punaxe
21-05-06, 18:00
Nonsense, I'll date whoever I want :D
(If she wants, too... :()

VonCroy360
21-05-06, 18:48
Baaah... :(
Don't talk about love... my heart is currently in pain...
I like someone but i guess she doesn't like me back... :(

Hypnosos
21-05-06, 18:52
I'm basically the only person on here who has never dated EVEN ONCE.
No.

Shark_Blade
21-05-06, 20:26
Baaah... :(
Don't talk about love... my heart is currently in pain...
I like someone but i guess she doesn't like me back... :(
Well go tell her.:yik: I mean I watched a tv movie once:

A guy loves a girl but he kept quiet for 5 years, being a friend to her.
The girl came to her friend at the guest table during her wedding in a church.
She said to him:

Antonio, I really like you but you never said anything to me.
That's why I accepted when Tony asked to marry me.

So it's a terribly a BIG LOSS to just stay quiet and waiting things to happen
:(

Capt. Murphy
21-05-06, 21:56
I'm basically the only person on here who has never dated EVEN ONCE. Not one date....Eh hmmm.... :o *raises hand*

Dating an Older woman? Ew! X-[ I read this on MSN and pretty much concluded that the reason for dating the older lady is to get experience in bed. *_*; Well what if I'm keeping myself for the one I'm going to marry? If she happens to be older - well then I guess that kills 2 birds with one stone. If she's young(er) [closer to my age] then finding out what...

Okay. That's enough. :o

ILG49ers
21-05-06, 22:22
I'm basically the only person on here who has never dated EVEN ONCE.

I've never been on a real date. I haven't even had a girlfriend since I was in 4th grade. :o I guess that's one of the joys of going to homeschool. :p

James Burgon
21-05-06, 22:33
I've never really been on a 'date'. Like, going out somewhere with someone and analysing them etc. Just been in relationships and hang out + go places. Only one relationship, but didn't like it much. She kept checking up on me and my phone messages and questioning me about them, and always thought i was cheating on her.

And I hated it :P.

Casual partners all the way! And anyone who's upset. They ain't worth it. Go out with your FRIENDS. They mean more to anyone than some little bit of skirt :).

larasguardian
21-05-06, 23:14
So it's a terribly a BIG LOSS to just stay quiet and waiting things to happen
:(

I've been qiuet for 1,5 year, Actually i was never brave enough to tell him:hea:

Catapharact
21-05-06, 23:18
I've been qiuet for 1,5 year, Actually i was never brave enough to tell him:hea:

I waited two years to tell my love, and she still teases me about how I took my friggin time bringing up the courage to say "I love you" Lol!

It worked good for me in the end :). I say go for it. If you have a good enough understanding for each other, your friendship wouldn't be affected if he says no.

Shark_Blade
22-05-06, 01:11
I've been qiuet for 1,5 year, Actually i was never brave enough to tell him:hea:
5 years is a very long time.:yik: go on and tell him. If you loose him it'll be more devastating than telling him the truth. At least he knows you like him if you tell him.

CerebralAssassin
22-05-06, 07:12
no she said 1.5 years,a year and a half:)

Shark_Blade
22-05-06, 07:31
no she said 1.5 years,a year and a half:)
aahh, I see:o lol
I've known my girlfriend for about 11 months now. But still,...

Jebus
22-05-06, 09:49
most girls i have been with were younger than me, althoug i did go out with a girl who was around 8 months older than me, she was well cool!!!