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Hi.
I was wondering what do the people here of a female gender look for in guys?
And how do you show it?
Do you ever play hard to get, or give mutural hints back that you like him?
"Hi."
Hello :wve:
"I was wondering what do the people here of a female gender look for in guys?"
Well first off, EVERY girl is different. They have a different look for in guys. It'll be rare to find one exactly with another. But mine: I look for in a guy that has to have in personality(not all, but most):
Humor
Fun
Common Sense
Responsidle
Patience
Nice eyes
Comforting
Forgiving
Kind
Generous
Caring
Loving
Devoted
Smart enough
Creative
Communicative
Encouraging
Complimentary
Compassion
Sweet
And it doesn't matter to me about looks, just decent
Edit: Be themselves (said by xMiSsCrOfTx)
"And how do you show it?"
We don't have to exactly show it. We can hide things pretty well. But depending if we're shy or not they will show.
"Do you ever play hard to get, or give mutural hints back that you like him?"
Like I said before it depends on the person. But playing easy to get is not good either. Playing easy is meaning that your easy to get also in the bed. You don't want that, unless your that type of person. But it's good to play hard to get because it shows how strong we girls are. I play hard to get. But I do give hints.
Where have you learned this, xBoricua? :pi:
xMiSsCrOfTx
18-04-07, 23:35
Playing hard to get.. Ah, such fun. ;) Well, I personally look for a guy who is caring, yet not overly sensitive. Someone fun and not too serious, but still grounded. Definitely someone who isn't over competitive, I can't stand that. I know it's natural male instinct, but damn! Sometimes you gotta settle down. :p Basically everything xBoricua just mentioned. But most importantly... A GUY WHO IS COMFORTABLE IN HIS OWN SKIN. I hate when guys (anyone for that matter!) try to be someone who they're not.
Where have you learned this, xBoricua? :pi:
Me :D
I do agree xMiSsCrOfTx when guys get over competitive, I hate that!
*Looks at xBoricua's list*
Damn! http://bestsmileys.com/wow/4.gif Thats me! (except the creative bit)
Reads list....
Reads list again.....
Hmmmm.....
Something is missing I think......
Oh I know what it is..... The great big fat Wallet.... (Well at least for women around were I live anyway.)
Catapharact
19-04-07, 00:14
Definitely someone who isn't over competitive, I can't stand that. I know it's natural male instinct, but damn! Sometimes you gotta settle down. :p
Sorry babe but the day a guy gives up being competitve is the day he tears out his own man-bits and steps on them ;).
Little-Lara
19-04-07, 00:46
*Looks at xBoricua's list*
Damn! http://bestsmileys.com/wow/4.gif Thats me! (except the creative bit)
Really?!!!!!! :mis: hahahaa just kidding. For me, I use three parts:
First Part: Good or okay or presentable looking.
Second Part: Practical, fun, humorous, responsible, and caring.
Third Part: Respectful towards everyone and all kinds of people, possiblity of being a good dad and a good husband. :tmb:
Tomb-Raider
19-04-07, 01:36
"Hi."
Hello :wve:
"I was wondering what do the people here of a female gender look for in guys?"
Well first off, EVERY girl is different. They have a different look for in guys. It'll be rare to find one exactly with another. But mine: I look for in a guy that has to have in personality(not all, but most):
Humor
Fun
Common Sense
Responsidle
Patience
Nice eyes
Comforting
Forgiving
Kind
Generous
Caring
Loving
Devoted
Smart enough
Creative
Communicative
Encouraging
Complimentary
Compassion
Sweet
And it doesn't matter to me about looks, just decent
Edit: Be themselves (said by xMiSsCrOfTx)
"And how do you show it?"
We don't have to exactly show it. We can hide things pretty well. But depending if we're shy or not they will show.
"Do you ever play hard to get, or give mutural hints back that you like him?"
Like I said before it depends on the person. But playing easy to get is not good either. Playing easy is meaning that your easy to get also in the bed. You don't want that, unless your that type of person. But it's good to play hard to get because it shows how strong we girls are. I play hard to get. But I do give hints.
Wow. Thats alot of things. Hard to find Mr. Right, eh?
Shark_Blade
19-04-07, 02:38
And I thought girls like::whi:
- big muscles
- masculine macho type
- hairy chest
- deep voice
- a man with an accent
- PHD....pretty huge..
lol it seems I describe a caveman and not really a man
silver_wolf
19-04-07, 02:45
wow...I hope not all girls have lists that huge or I'm screwed. Not that Im not a nice guy, of course.
And I thought girls like::whi:
- big muscles
- masculine macho type
- hairy chest
- deep voice
- a man with an accent
- PHD....pretty huge..
lol it seems I describe a caveman and not really a man
LOL :D
I thought it's more like:
Lots of Cash....
Fancy Car
Lots of cash
In touch with his femine side
Lots of cash
Likes Chick Flicks
Lots of cash
Travels A lot
Lots of cash...
Kamrusepas
19-04-07, 02:48
- big muscles
- masculine macho type
- hairy chest
- deep voice
- a man with an accent
- PHD....pretty huge..
Underlined parts: eww... I do like muscles on a man though. And a deep voice. I don't know about the accent though, in Finnish it [almost] always sounds really stupid :D
Girls look for tall guys...lol, j/k...but a lot of polls say that, but you don't go out with people because of height alone...
On topic, a lot girls look for a gentleman who opens the car door for her, pulls out her chair for her at a restaurant, little things like that which aren't totally necessary these days, but still a nice sentiment.
Don't brag or boast, no girl likes a you-know-what-er(begins with a "bull"). Don't try to be possessive or overtly macho, that's a big turn off, too. Many girls also don't like it when a guy has a lot of unrealistic ambitions ("Yeah, I always wanted to open my own chain of niteclubs, cos I've been to a lot of 'em, know what works, what doesn't..." know what I mean?)
In short, lots of girls look for a guy who is respectful and sincere, and isn't clingy, possessive, or too needy.
**oh, and RESPONSIBLE, and independent. Definitely wouldn't go out with a guy who whines at his mum for overcooking his mac n' cheese. lol
Shark_Blade
19-04-07, 02:57
LOL :D
I thought it's more like:
Lots of Cash....
Fancy Car
Lots of cash
In touch with his femine side
Lots of cash
Likes Chick Flicks
Lots of cash
Travels A lot
Lots of cash...
lol money talks I believe. But
Likes Chick Flicks A chick flick? :eek: Shoot me!
LaraCablara
19-04-07, 02:57
"Hi."
Humor
Fun
Common Sense
Responsidle
Patience
Nice eyes
Comforting
Forgiving
Kind
Generous
Caring
Loving
Devoted
Smart enough
Creative
Communicative
Encouraging
Complimentary
Compassion
Sweet
I think I should save this and print copies O_O
And I thought girls like::whi:
- big muscles
- masculine macho type
- hairy chest
- deep voice
- a man with an accent
- PHD....pretty huge..
lol it seems I describe a caveman and not really a man
Ive got none of the above :) But Im still young so theres hope!
lol money talks I believe. But
A chick flick? :eek: Shoot me!
Yeah if you were rich and put an add out you would have thousands lined up in about 5 mins.
There was a rich guy who put out an add saying he was looking for a wife, he had over a Million women respond.... No picture or description, just that he was rich ;)
How do you think these old rich 60 and 70+ year old guys get these 25 year old wives. ;) It has to be love..... Yeah..... :vlol:
Yeah I can't stand chick flicks either.
But then for the rest of us normal guys we have to be all of the above posts and more.
But that's until some dude drives up in a Ferrari and tells her to get in.... See Ya..... ;)
Yeah if you were rich and put an add out you would have thousands lined up in about 5 mins.
Yeah I can't stand chick flicks either.
But then for the rest of us normal guys we have to be all of the above posts and more.
Hmm. I'm a chick who hates chick flicks. Terrible sappy formulated dredge, chick flicks are.
Although few will speak openly about it, yeah, money- or the ability to earn it in plenty- does make up a part of many women's definition of masculinity- that whole 'good provider' thing. My sociology professor kept on telling us "Marriage cannot run on love alone!" Money also presents stability and freedom- marrying a wealthy man means one can do more of the stuff they've only dreamed about, be it travel, luxury shopping, or charity.
It's kinda like how looks are very important to a lot of guys. A fit, well-endowed woman is the symbol of fertility which appeals to those deep-down, cave-man instincts;)
When it comes down to it, though, no self help book or Dr.Phil character is gonna set you on the path to true love or happy hay rolling - there's certainly an art to socializing and a dash of luck in 'chemistry' between two people, but it really just happens.
This coming from someone who's never even been on a date before..heh...just call it an educated guess:rolleyes:
Yeah, chick flicks... My friend in primary school used to force me to watch 'em. Seen enough of Julia Roberts' teeth for a lifetime.
Andromeda66
19-04-07, 05:25
LOL :D
I thought it's more like:
Lots of Cash....
Fancy Car
Lots of cash
In touch with his femine side
Lots of cash
Likes Chick Flicks
Lots of cash
Travels A lot
Lots of cash...
Money cant buy happiness but it certainly gets you a more pleasant form of misery eh? :mis:
Anyways On topic, my list would include:
-> An IQ (Muy importante!)
-> Sense of humour
-> A splash of insanity
-> open-mindedness
-> would like him well-read and well-travelled
-> would love it if he played chopin :cln: but thats not a necessity
Thats all I can think of at the moment.
Little-Lara
19-04-07, 05:34
-> A splash of insanity
LOL don't u mean a "pinch"?
I like guys who are wild, i guess that could fall under "insanity".
Andromeda66
19-04-07, 05:46
No I mean splash. :D anything less than that is unacceptable and anything more than that is somewhat intolerable :D
and well wild isnt the same as the insanity factor I was referring to. Its kinda hard to explain. :)
When I think wild, i think aggressive, not insane.
Different girls look for different things I guess.
Cord_Croft
19-04-07, 06:23
Hmm, for me it would have to be:
someone who's caring, loving, funny, makes me laugh, can take a joke, I'm not really bothered by looks (it's all about the inside), and someone who likes me for who I am.
nicola1986
19-04-07, 11:27
Sense of humour for me definetly, I find a funny guy irresistible :D
And if they happen to look like Dean or Sam from Supernatural that's just FINE with me! ;)
Girls look for tall guys...lol, j/k...but a lot of polls say that, but you don't go out with people because of height alone...
Just a little taller than me would be just fine :D I hate feeling like a little ant, even when wearing heels X_X
On topic, a lot girls look for a gentleman who opens the car door for her, pulls out her chair for her at a restaurant, little things like that which aren't totally necessary these days, but still a nice sentiment.
Goodness no. I've had that, I could still have that, I could have had that for my entire life but I turned it down.
Don't brag or boast, no girl likes a you-know-what-er(begins with a "bull"). Don't try to be possessive or overtly macho, that's a big turn off, too. Many girls also don't like it when a guy has a lot of unrealistic ambitions ("Yeah, I always wanted to open my own chain of niteclubs, cos I've been to a lot of 'em, know what works, what doesn't..." know what I mean?)
I agree with that :D
In short, lots of girls look for a guy who is respectful and sincere, and isn't clingy, possessive, or too needy.
**oh, and RESPONSIBLE, and independent. Definitely wouldn't go out with a guy who whines at his mum for overcooking his mac n' cheese. lol
And that too :p
What I like? Confidence, ambition, someone who doesn't settle with a regular job at a supermarket but wants more (don't get me wrong, I don't want a man to pay my bills, I want him to be able to pay his own), that is first and foremost, a friend, then a boyfriend, that is caring enough but that can take the **** out of me when needed, that when things go wrong can confront me and actually say what he has to say instead of turning his back because he doesn't want to fight, that can put up with my *****y attitude and that can respect my weird taste in well... everything XD that has a sense of humour that can match mine, as far as being utterly ridiculous and that can cook, because I'm hopeless in the kitchen :p
That sounds just like my best friend X_X
nicola1986
19-04-07, 11:45
The thought of having a bit of a mummy's boy terrifies me :eek:
My bf was a bit like that when I first met him but I knocked that straight out :mis: lol Hope he's not on here....
Kamrusepas
19-04-07, 11:50
A chick flick? :eek: Shoot me!
Yeah, shoot me too.
Ada the Mental
19-04-07, 11:51
And I thought girls like::whi:
- big muscles
- masculine macho type
- hairy chest
- deep voice
- a man with an accent
- PHD....pretty huge..
lol it seems I describe a caveman and not really a man
Yuck!:ton:
LOL :D
I thought it's more like:
Lots of Cash....
Fancy Car
Lots of cash
In touch with his femine side
Lots of cash
Likes Chick Flicks
Lots of cash
Travels A lot
Lots of cash...
Oh really?If you put it that way,then guys want :
-*****
-blue eyes
-blond hair
-*****
-nice ass
-*****
:p
I personally find irresistable a guy who's kind yet not an emo,honest,caring,intelligent,has the same interests as me,has a good sense of humor,has more things in his mind than sex,is not an egostical *******.
BTW,CHICK FLICKS? :yik: :eek: The horror!Murder me!
Reads list....
Reads list again.....
Hmmmm.....
Something is missing I think......
Oh I know what it is..... The great big fat Wallet.... (Well at least for women around were I live anyway.)
LOL :D
I thought it's more like:
Lots of Cash....
Fancy Car
Lots of cash
In touch with his femine side
Lots of cash
Likes Chick Flicks
Lots of cash
Travels A lot
Lots of cash...
Now I see why you put no attention to the word "budget" when someone asks for hardware upgrade advice at the basement :p :D
No offense, may be not girls (not all of them) expect only that, but you think about them (all) in that way and act as if they do :mis:
Personally I can't stand when one judge another by wallet size only :)
frostfur452
19-04-07, 12:47
Lol, personally, I prefer a guy who is tall. Nice back. And isn't very judgemental.
Hmmm, the non-judgmental part would be the hardest for me to find I reckon. Lol.
I saw a documentary on this once, and it said that the number one thing girls see in boys is height... I might be wrong though :p
Oh really?If you put it that way,then guys want :
-*****
-blue eyes
-blond hair
-*****
-nice ass
-*****
:p
Not all guys just want those things. :D
I prefer Petite Brunettes. :D
disneyprincess20
19-04-07, 13:36
I look for humour. All of my friends in successful relationships share a sense of humour with their partner, I know my other half and I do! It gets us through the day.
Other than that..... I'm not really sure!
Another Lara
19-04-07, 13:38
I have an awful weakness for a good sense of humour! If a guy makes me laugh he's half way there lol:D !
Good looks don't tend to matter to me, as I have low self esteem, so I'd get paranoid of being the ugly girl with the handsome guy:o ! But I do have a taste for dark complexion and light eyes!
Muslces never bothered me, except too much is a big turn off for me...
Tattoos aswell I do like, no matter how many or how little!
But personality is the biggest feature: as long as he's kind, considerate, generous and funny, I wouldn't say no!
And I do tend to play hard to get! A guy in my opinion should work hard for what he wants and I have good will power!:mis:
disneyprincess20
19-04-07, 13:41
I've never been that comfortable with playing hard to get, because it makes them think there is something to get. If, as you go further down the line, you decide you dont like him but still he likes you then he's going after something you're not going to give. I dont dangle the bait if I wont like the catch ;)
Eddie Haskell
19-04-07, 13:42
In my experience I always felt that women want security. This goes for for everything from one's love to the pocketbook. They want to feel that their chosen one is loyal, self-sustaining, ambitious and comfortable with himself.
Women want to be loved. Most men do as well, but women really need that knowledge in order to settle in with someone. For me that was easy, my wife is a dream come true for me.
I have also found that most women really do look for a man with a potentially lucrative future (a smart move really), or preferably living that life now. It makes it so much easier to "love" that guy. ;)
And don't let women fool you with that crap like "Looks don't matter". Don't believe it, a less attractive guy has to work 10X as hard just to get to first base. If you are one of these guys, work hard and get a good sized bankroll. It more than compensates, believe me. ;)
Bullethail
19-04-07, 13:43
No comment...
BlackFlame
19-04-07, 13:45
Money cant buy happiness but it certainly gets you a more pleasant form of misery eh? :mis:
Anyways On topic, my list would include:
-> An IQ (Muy importante!)
-> Sense of humour
-> A splash of insanity
-> open-mindedness
-> would like him well-read and well-travelled
-> would love it if he played chopin :cln: but thats not a necessity
Thats all I can think of at the moment.
That's me, aprt from playing Chopin (Chopin.... is that available for the PS2?)
So being ugly isn't an issue then?
In my experience I always felt that women want security. This goes for for everything from one's love to the pocketbook. They want to feel that their chosen one is loyal, self-sustaining, ambitious and comfortable with himself.
Women want to be loved. Most men do as well, but women really need that knowledge in order to settle in with someone. For me that was easy, my wife is a dream come true for me.
I have also found that most women really do look for a man with a potentially lucrative future (a smart move really), or preferably living that life now. It makes it so much easier to "love" that guy. ;)
And don't let women fool you with that crap like "Looks don't matter". Don't believe it, a less attractive guy has to work 10X as hard just to get to first base. If you are one of these guys, work hard and get a good sized bankroll. It more than compensates, believe me. ;)
Reality check... :tmb:
Well first off, EVERY girl is different. They have a different look for in guys. It'll be rare to find one exactly with another. But mine: I look for in a guy that has to have in personality(not all, but most):Right, let's see...
Humor
I would say I have a sense of humour, but only if it has two 'u's.
Fun
I suppose I'm sometimes fun and sometimes annoying. :ton:
Common Sense
Well, that's debatable.
Responsidle
Again, debatable.
Patience
It depends. ;)
Nice eyes
That's hard to judge through my own eyes. :cln:
Comforting
I'm not sure about that. :p
Forgiving
It depends. ;)
Kind
It depends. ;)
Generous
It depends. ;)
Caring
It depends. ;)
Loving
It depends. ;)
Devoted
I don't know about that.
Smart enough
I'm smart. :D
Creative
I would say so.
Communicative
Erm, I'm 14, so... no.
Encouraging
It depends.
Complimentary
It depends.
Compassion
It depends.
Sweet
I don't know about that.
Be themselves
Well, it's impossible to be anyone other than yourself. I am myself, by definition. ;) :ton:
BlackFlame
19-04-07, 13:56
Right, let's see...
It depends. ;)
I'm not sure about that. :p
It depends. ;)
It depends. ;)
It depends. ;)
It depends. ;)
It depends. ;)
I don't know about that.
I'm smart. :D
I would say so.
It depends.
It depends.
It depends.
I don't know about that.
Maybe you'll meet a girl that find indecisiveness attractive....
What a joke. Everyone knows women will only consider guys who look like Orlando Bloom or have 50 million $, and if you are neither, you don't stand a chance. Since I'm neither, I don't have any glimmer of hope of finding a girlfriend, but I don't really care, considering I have more important things to worry about, and I shouldn't be focusing on what I don't have and should be on what I do have: a home, a job, and more importantly a family.
Catapharact
19-04-07, 16:16
Ok, not trying to be snide here but notice how most of the negitive views on a woman's preference usually revolve around guys who can't seem to have any luck holding on to a girl ;) (yes... there are exceptions.)
Guys... Just taking the girl's POV for a sec. What the heck did ya expect? You want girls to stop creating a wishlist where as I know you seacrely keep one yourself ;). Let the girls indulge in peace will ya? Go and moan somewhere else.
Ok, not trying to be snide here but notice how most of the negitive views on a woman's preference usually revolve around guys who can't seem to have any luck holding on to a girl ;) (yes... there are exceptions.)
Not all of us. ;)
I'm a bit of a sucker for people who show me too much affection:p
Or that smell sweet:)
Although my 'masculine' side i'm told by one of my very good friends is a real turn off lol...I can't help it if i'm not girly...
sense of humour.....
sharpness....* i need a bit of intelligence*
someone who can make decisions.
a man!
someone who makes me feel like a woman. :)
oh plus compliments...presents.....more presents....:D
well i look for - a great smile, can always make laugh, comforting, charming, lovely eyes, and looks decent. Looks arent too important to me... and many people laughed at the thought of me going out with my last boyfriend, just because he wasnt blonde haired and blue eyed. *sigh*
CuteKittenlol
19-04-07, 16:30
What a joke. Everyone knows women will only consider guys who look like Orlando Bloom or have 50 million $
How wrong you are. :)
Anyways, In guys, I like them to be kind, caring, funny, sweet, respectable, considerate, quiet, cute, loving, has long hair (:p), doesn't care what anyone else thinks about "us", fun to be with, makes me feel I can talk to them about anything, likes me for me, can hold a good conversation, makes me feel safe, makes me feel wanted, can always make me feel better no matter what and he is always there for when whenever I should need him.
Basically, I like the kind and quiet kind of guys.
EDIT - Don't care what I look like, and will always tell me that I look pretty, no matter what state I'm in. XD
Guys who show off, and those who treat me with no respect, are crap boyfriends IMO.
Looks don't really matter to me. It's about the person on the inside. I mean, sure, I like to look at guys, I like to drool over people I know I'll never get a chance to be with. But, it really isn't about that to me.
Looks are a bonus.
Sounds good, alot of replies:-)
A scary thought…women look for a fat wallet or credit card so they can go shopping all day long! :D
Oh, now this is something I have to think about! :eek:
An ideal guy, hmmmmm? :p Duh, it's kinda hard to list just some certain properties in general.. I'll give it a try. So this is what I think, not all the girls of course! O_o Sillysilly, we are different!
Firstly the person must be someone who loves me, obviously. Cares, respects, treats well and when needed also protects and makes me feel safe. I need someone comforting me when feeling down, like "you're okay and I love you just the way you are" -sayinglikethingies. Heh, some patience is also needed, but not too much! Men must also have some, well, you know NATURE. Not all "yes dear, okay dear, just a word and I'll obey", I don't want a guy living under my slipper. I'm pretty uncertain at times so there must be someone leading the way in my case, make decisions but of course ask me too! ^_^ Hmm, what then.. Oh! I've always found humorously sarcastic attitude to be attractive, surprisingly random comments in certain situations are delightful and can really make my day. Which doesn't mean all-going dumb jokes! Nonono, guy must be smart and able to express his feelings and talk just about everything. I will trust him completely and I do expect the same, so no concealing things from me! Likes debating, I hope. Listens, has own opinions..
Well, these were the boring things you'd expect from everyone. More details!
I am looking for a person who.. hmm.. has similar views of life about things that really matter to me. But also many, many features I haven't thoughts of and are his OWN. Something new, something exciting.. But not too extreme! :ton:
Nah, enough about the personality? :rolleyes: Anyways, that's what I'm looking for.
And then the looks, eh?
I'm bad at saying anything about superficial appearance.. I mean, if I love somebody it's plainly evident that I love every single part in that person, including body. :)
But when thinking of my lifestyle.. Well, I'm not very active. I like laying on a sofa, typing at the computer, playing games(Whee, I want to have matches!), watching good movies, reading books, cooking and such.. I'm a home-person, I do like traveling also but not for too long - maybe max. a week or two? Yeah. So I need someone who's lifestyle fits my lifestyle. That's why a not-so-active partner would be better. Not super-lazy of course, but you know.. easy-goingly relaxed. NOT AN ATHLETE OR A BODYBUILDER! ...because 1) I feel they may not have enough time for me 2) I'd feel very clumsy with them. I'm not sporty at all and I'm also kinda non-slim(not FAT, but.. Erh.. mellower! :p) so I prefer chubbier boys. Rather chubby than skinny! :D Normal-sized, still a little taller than me(I'm quite short).
Age-difference.. Not too large, few years maybe. Being at the same wave-length is more important, if you know what I mean. :wve:
Oh my, I wrote a lot! :eek: And still I feel like missed something essential.. :vlol: Ah well, you got what my "ideal" would be like.
Mhehe, :gay:.
Edit: Oh, by the way.. Men's salary didn't ever even come to my mind when I wrote this. Duh, well I assume he works and I work so we earn our money together. He doesn't have to have some huge inheritance or anything to start with at all! o.O
Edit2: Ah and I didn't check the grammars at all, sorry for my English.. :o
1. Insensitivity
2. Money
3. Looks
4. Money
Well i hate that some girls act hard to gett.
If i say like something hinting that we should so something someday or anything like that and i gett a answer like "yeah, will see" or something that maybe showes that they arent really to keen on doing it i give up staright away and never waste any more time or broken love on that girl.
I think it because i dont want to put them in an aquward(howdouwrightit?) possition and they obvisioly dont have mutural feelings so whats the point:-
Stunning blue eyes and I'm all yours...
But besides that little jokey comment, I don't know because I have fallen for so many different guys.
But here is a list of things :
Makes me laugh.
Makes me cry.
Devoted to me.
Has a personality.
Has the ability to make me feel so lucky when I think of him.
Will not undermine me.
Will not make me feel ugly.
Will not care about the way I look.
Treats me like a human.
Not afraid to show public displays of affection.
Does not care for football.
Does not lie to me to impress me.
Does sweet things, not caring if he looks like a puff or not.
Cares how I'm feeling.
Shares my love of dorkyness ^_^
Not embarrassed about me, I want him to be proud.Erm.. not long at all.. :whi:
Erm.. not long at all.. :whi:
Read mine.. :vlol:
Sara Croft
19-04-07, 17:28
Comforting, good looking, a little bad boy, and can stand up for himself.. (and her:D)
*cough*
Read mine.. :vlol:
:D:D I would have added more but realized they were unsuitable for the forum...
And some really soppy ones..
Well, depends on the girl, I hate it when my friends are like ooooh he's fit and stuff to chavs and you'll know they've only got sex on their mind and don't care about her enough etc.
Eddie Haskell
19-04-07, 17:39
Looks don't really matter to me. It's about the person on the inside. I mean, sure, I like to look at guys, I like to drool over people I know I'll never get a chance to be with. But, it really isn't about that to me.
Looks are a bonus.
All women say that, but they don't really mean it. LOOKS MATTER TO EVERYONE! It's genetically imprinted, you cannot fight it. While some women are less selective if a guy meets other less important criteria, it soes not diminish the importance of attractiveness. One must be attracted to someone in order to want to be around them intimately.
The same applies to a woman seeking security. Even in the animal world the female will choose the best provider with the prettiest voice/song, it is a genetic imperative. So don't deceive yourself and others, mature men know better.
Theres no point at all in going out with the best looking guy in the world if he treats you like crap.
Besides looks fade...humour, sparkiness and kindness dont.
Yes, and nobody says MONEY?
All a culture exists on that ..... :confused:
Tampi..there must be something wrong with me...I have never gone out with a guy for money. Ever. I dont care about that. Its my emotional happiness that i need a wealth of. I would take love and kindness over unhappiness and wealth.
I do not speak far from it on you. I say it in serious, exists a culture of prepared women to hunt to the best bidder :(
I have not relations with these specimen....... :mad: ;) :)
I know what you mean tampi...some women out there are grasping so and so's. :)
Yes, and nobody says MONEY?
All a culture exists on that ..... :confused:
I'd like him to have money, but if we had to live in a forest I'd still be happy :p As long as I can afford my make-up.
jamieoliver22
19-04-07, 18:02
I'd like him to have money, but if we had to live in a forest I'd still be happy :p As long as I can afford my make-up.
I have told you enough times... But... You look stunning even without make-up :p
~*~Chloe~*~
19-04-07, 18:04
As long as you can make me laugh and be nice then I'd wanna hang around with you!:D
Prettiest it is to obtain it between both ..... :hug:
;)
You must think that although you find to somebody likeable, good, romantic, bla, bla bla,…., THIS can happen….
Do you remember of that video of DOVE, a woman that put handsome? then you watch this…. :D
I0u0wWOMIsE :tmb:
I think all women want a guy, who is nice, considerate...stuff like that, there are tons of really ugly guys out there who are married. And every one is beautifull in some way. (Except for that ***** Jerina...:pi:) I don't know a single girl who goes for macho man, it's usually sweet, non violent ones. (but yet, not gay.) Macho man:
1. Eeew, too many muscles wanna make me barf.
2. You're trying too hard, it seems desperate
3. Good, normal non-slutty girls care about what's inside, not popularity or being hot. (Though being hot can be a cherry on top of the sundade, it's not THAT important. The crush of my life was not that cute by looks, he had croocked teeth and a lot of birth marks. But he was so nice to me, that I couldn't stop thinking about him. :hug: God I miss you Alex U! :o )
Does not care for football.
Aw, you had to go and spoil it didn't you?
Honesty, kindness, humor, spontaneity, creativity, intelligence, nice looks and trimness.
I like strong guys with an edge, but absolutely no machos. If he doesn't know how to treat a lady or shows any signs of a feeling of superiority, he's out.
UltimatePredator
19-04-07, 20:10
I think all women want a guy, who is nice, considerate...stuff like that, there are tons of really ugly guys out there who are married. And every one is beautifull in some way. (Except for that ***** Jerina...:pi:) I don't know a single girl who goes for macho man, it's usually sweet, non violent ones. (but yet, not gay.) Macho man:
1. Eeew, too many muscles wanna make me barf.
2. You're trying too hard, it seems desperate
3. Good, normal non-slutty girls care about what's inside, not popularity or being hot. (Though being hot can be a cherry on top of the sundade, it's not THAT important. The crush of my life was not that cute by looks, he had croocked teeth and a lot of birth marks. But he was so nice to me, that I couldn't stop thinking about him. :hug: God I miss you Alex U! :o )
Then you're a rarity, cos thats usually not the case unfortunately.
Then you're a rarity, cos thats usually not the case unfortunately.
Hmm, thats what i thought to...
frostfur452
20-04-07, 02:21
All women say that, but they don't really mean it. LOOKS MATTER TO EVERYONE! It's genetically imprinted, you cannot fight it. While some women are less selective if a guy meets other less important criteria, it soes not diminish the importance of attractiveness. One must be attracted to someone in order to want to be around them intimately.
The same applies to a woman seeking security. Even in the animal world the female will choose the best provider with the prettiest voice/song, it is a genetic imperative. So don't deceive yourself and others, mature men know better.
Yeah I guess. But what happened to me was there was this guy who I considered to be a great friend. I was not attracted to him at all. In fact He was probably the opposite to my ideals looks wise. But after getting to see different sides of him that most other people normally wouldn't have seen, I found myself being attracted to him.
So where as looks may be the main reason to draw women in, if they're not really looking for it then there are other factors there as well.
PirateFromPeru
20-04-07, 04:50
I think in my whole life only about 2 or 3 girls liked me (there's a shocker :rolleyes:) It was usually a girl that I only liked as a friend. Anyways, they all said they liked my sense of humor and that I was sweet, gentle, blah blah blah. Although humor is my best weapon and I'm going stick with that. It's the best chance I got for finding a girl just like me. :D
So there you go ladies. ;) Sweet, funny guy right here! *puts on bachelor mustache* :vlol: (I'm only kidding of course.)
Andromeda66
20-04-07, 04:56
Does not care for football.You plan to stay single all your life Lav?
That's me, aprt from playing Chopin (Chopin.... is that available for the PS2?)
Funnnyyyy.
So being ugly isn't an issue then?
Looks are important, no denying that fact. If a guy foams at the mouth or picks his nose when noone's looking, I'd probably not go near him. There's just something thats slightly more important and if the two factors are balanced, its perfect.
But okay, if I were to look for specific physical features that attract my attention in a man, it would be...
-> A good jawline
-> A nice nose
-> Gait
-> The default facial expression (Smiling, frowning, pensive, lost, blank)
-> Lashes
-> A charismatic smile
Lashes
Got that covered. My eyelashes are that long they get tangled. Bloody nuisance actually.
Andromeda66
20-04-07, 05:11
Yeah but look on the bright side: You need to clean only one side of your glasses.
I think in my whole life only about 2 or 3 girls liked me (there's a shocker :rolleyes:) It was usually a girl that I only liked as a friend. Anyways, they all said they liked my sense of humor and that I was sweet, gentle, blah blah blah. Although humor is my best weapon and I'm going stick with that. It's the best chance I got for finding a girl just like me. :D
So there you go ladies. ;) Sweet, funny guy right here! *puts on bachelor mustache* :vlol: (I'm only kidding of course.)
It's true, some chicks love guys who can make 'em laugh. ^.^ (I don't need one though, I make myself laugh.:p) And nice, nice and all that crap is the most important part.
And Physically all I would need for example is hygene, No one wants to be with a slob, who eats boogars or never showers, or is way hairy, or a million pounds of Lard... so on so on,
PirateFromPeru
20-04-07, 05:21
It's true, some chicks love guys who can make 'em laugh. ^.^ (I don't need one though, I make myself laugh.:p) And nice, nice and all that crap is the most important part.
I'm trying to. Real hard. :hea:
I'm trying to. Real hard. :hea:
Is it really that hard for you guys to act nice?
PirateFromPeru
20-04-07, 05:28
Is it really that hard for you guys to act nice?
No not really. Hmmm, good point. Now that I think about it, I don't know where I was going with that. I must've been thinking about something else. (or I should just go to bed. very tired.) Sorry. ;)
No not really. Hmmm, good point. Now that I think about it, I don't know where I was going with that. I must've been thinking about something else. (or I should just go to bed. very tired.) Sorry. ;)
I think you should just go to bed before you faint on your keyboard. :D
Lucky duck, here it's 7:30...OMG I gotta go to school! Bye!
Yes, and nobody says MONEY?
Of course not, all the guys would run the other way if the woman really said what she really wanted. ;)
I know what you mean tampi...some women out there are grasping so and so's. :)
Oh yeah they are out there for sure I can tell you..... Been there done that one, twice. :hea:
I do not speak far from it on you. I say it in serious, exists a culture of prepared women to hunt to the best bidder :(
I have not relations with these specimen....... :mad: ;) :)
No matter what they say Money is either 1st or second on the list, if the guy doesn't have a bunch of money then all of the other things matter. ;)
Example today:
A guy I know lost his job that he was making about $80,000 a year. His wife is talking about leaving him the 1st day he lost it. :rolleyes:
If that was me I would have said fine and threw the ***** out on her ass.
Most women aren't like that, and there's rotten apples on both sides.
Most women aren't like that, and there's rotten apples on both sides.
I dunno, one of Mine tried the same crap with me when I was laid off and I kicked her to the curb. ;)
Lara Croft!
20-04-07, 14:12
I,a 20-year-old girl/woman want for the other half :
Clever
Funny
Handsome in a manly way
Good "bed" skills
Caring and tender
but at the same time harsh and abrupt when needed
I need to feel secure and protected by him
Share the same interests
I,a 20-year-old girl/woman want for the other half :
Clever
Funny
Handsome in a manly way
Good "bed" skills
Caring and tender
but at the same time harsh and abrupt when needed
I need to feel secure and protected by him
Share the same interests
Now that is realistic. :)
Lots of Cash....
Fancy Car
Lots of cash
In touch with his femine side
Lots of cash
Likes Chick Flicks
Lots of cash
Travels A lot
Lots of cash...
Hey, you nailed it!
Hey, you nailed it!
That was a joke, sort of. :pi:
Lara Croft!
20-04-07, 14:40
Now that is realistic. :)
For real?
For real?
As a guy I can say that is very realistic to me because that describes me almost exactly. :)
Lara Croft!
20-04-07, 14:52
Ιt's good to know I have realistic goals from an older man.I have found them all in my boyfriend (although I didn't ask for a super-jealous,cranky and yelling machine:D ).He had told me as well that he is glad I'm mature enough to have realistic goals when it comes to my partner.
Hey, you nailed it!
If that is true, then why would my mom have married my mom when he was so poor he had to buy instant pasta for dinner? :mad:
If that is true, then why would my mom have married my mom when he was so poor he had to buy instant pasta for dinner? :mad:
:eek:
Was that what I thought it was? :eek:
Ada the Mental
20-04-07, 20:04
Those who say that women who care only about looks and money are merely stereotyping.
Ok.I admit.It's the good-looking one you notice first.But the same goes for the men.As someone already said it has to do with genetics.
Still that doesn't mean that thre are no women that can look beyond that.
As for the wallet issue....:rolleyes:
I know this.One of my personal ambitions in life is to get a job that will allow me to be economically indipendent and as self-reliable as possible.So excuse me, but a guy's pocket is the last thing I'm going to check.
Just because there are some really bad eggs out there doesn't mean that everyone is the same.
Anyway,IMO the perfect partner should be above all your best friend.
First of all, no one should listen to me. I have never had a boyfriend. But, I saw this thread and just thought I'd give my opinion.
1. He'd have to be sensitive (but not too sensitive)
2. Understanding
3. Must like sports, preferably baseball and football (which isn't too unlikely)
4. Smart and an avid reader
and 5. Must be willing to cope with someone who has a quick temper.
P.S. I agree wtih Ada the Mental (which, by the way, is a very odd username). The best person for someone is a person who will always be there for you, who understands you, and who, above all, knows when you're angry and when to and to not talk to you.
If that is true, then why would my mom have married my mom when he was so poor he had to buy instant pasta for dinner? :mad:
Well, there's some few rare exceptions. They are those kind of girls all guys want to have, because there's no better. But most girls today are all golddiggers, I hate it.
Well, there's some few rare exceptions. They are those kind of girls all guys want to have, because there's no better. But most girls today are all golddiggers, I hate it.
I'm so not! If a girl is a gold digger that means she herself is untalented or lazy. But I will bring up my own career. and will not need that,
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