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Old 19-07-18, 18:54   #301
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thanks. I’ll go with... "none of your damn business, bitch"
If you're into to the person who's asking the question, I'd advise against it haha. If you don't feel comfortable answering, just say "I'm unsure". If they don't respect that, then they're not worth your time.

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I don't know why there seems to be this very public "identity" put on for each either, and people just ask openly and even judge you sometimes.

I'm not explicitly telling you my preferences unless we're actually really talking like we're going there. Otherwise it's not your concern.
Yeah, it's a very personal question to ask someone in my opinion. Though, if you're only into topping or bottoming then I can see why it's a problem if you later down the line find out you don't match up. Being versatile just seems fairer to me?

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Old 19-07-18, 18:57   #302
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If you're into to the person who's asking the question, I'd advise against it haha. If you don't feel comfortable answering, just say "I'm unsure". If they don't respect that, then they're not worth your time.
I’d probably won’t feel comfortable answering. you’d need a lock pick to open that backdoor...
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Old 19-07-18, 19:12   #303
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Top or bottom?
**** does that mean?
You (a gay) really pretended to not know what that means


Gurl...
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Old 19-07-18, 19:16   #304
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You (a gay) really pretended to not know what that means


Gurl...
I didn’t know what it meant. Again, why are you doing this?
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Old 19-07-18, 20:11   #305
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Yeah, it's a very personal question to ask someone in my opinion. Though, if you're only into topping or bottoming then I can see why it's a problem if you later down the line find out you don't match up. Being versatile just seems fairer to me?
If I really like someone enough it's very easy for me to make it "a match" haha, we'll just say that.

That's just me though.

To be fair I didn't know what that meant until I went to university. I think as a teen I'd always assumed all gays were open to both. Even I was stunned the first time I heard gay men, not just saying they only do one, but also making such a weird "identity" out of it. I do think that's kinda weird but, hey far be it from me to tell you what you should like or not like.
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Old 19-07-18, 21:36   #306
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^I agree that those types of labels are unnecessary. It's rather a selfish mentality, as if your own pleasure takes precedence over that of your potential partner's. People actually throw what could've been a great relationship away for nothing.
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Old 19-07-18, 21:40   #307
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Top or bottom?
**** does that mean?
Oh you poor innocent sweet child...

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To be fair I didn't know what that meant until I went to university. I think as a teen I'd always assumed all gays were open to both. Even I was stunned the first time I heard gay men, not just saying they only do one, but also making such a weird "identity" out of it. I do think that's kinda weird but, hey far be it from me to tell you what you should like or not like.
TBH, the term isn't exclusively used to highlight gay sexal relationships. More often than not, us straight people just use it to describe which aspects in our relationships are dominated by which partner; And its not necessarily because they have an overpowering personality; Its just that they are good at it .

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Old 19-07-18, 23:42   #308
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**** does that mean?

I’ll just leave this here.

Mod edit: No, you won't.

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I’ll just leave this here.
no, please don't. I don't fancy that.

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This thread is a raunch mess haha, I can't
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