25-10-04, 10:35 | #1 |
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My friend is an idiot. He thinks he can blow me off for his girlfriend and then come crying on my shoulder when things go wrong. Even though I intensely dislike her and know she is wrong for him I still make the hugest effort to get along with her seeing as he and I are like siblings to each other.
But she is insanely jealous of me as his closest friend and he is letting her ruin our friendship. I have tried slapping some sense into him but he is totally caught up in their relationship and Im so over being treated like this. I sound like Im on Springer. Sorry to the 1.5 billion men I insulted in my subject heading. |
25-10-04, 10:46 | #2 |
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Yes, you at least could have titled this "some" men.
(you can still change it you know To describe your experience with 1 guy you generalize enormously. |
25-10-04, 11:00 | #3 |
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Or even better title: " xxx (his name) is an idiot!"
About what you are telling here. I take it that you are single? He is "a friend" ( a close one) to you. But he has a love relationship with her. In that case, i can understand she wants you not too close to him. And he should not come to you crying and telling all about his relation. It is like a betrayal to his lover. I sense that you would like (and hope for) him as your boyfriend. If i am wrong in that, and you really want to be his 'a good friend" you would show him your friendship by helping him restoring his sanity and learning to behave, with more distance between you 2. Because love-relationships are Divine, and need to be protected and respected. Even in hard times. |
25-10-04, 11:03 | #4 |
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I protest! SOME men are idiots.
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25-10-04, 11:44 | #5 | |
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Joseph: I am in a relationship and he and the friend get along very well. And the thought of my friend romantically is just gross. He is the friend I will never ever ever under any circumstances become involved with romantically. I adore him too much to ever ruin our friendship. He is like a little brother. |
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25-10-04, 11:52 | #6 |
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You do not need to tell me about men being idiots....I have an ex husband, 'nough said
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25-10-04, 11:56 | #7 |
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Hi AE Phew
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25-10-04, 12:06 | #8 |
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How are you this evening Net?
Nerdalicious: How long were you married for? Im sorry to hear it didnt work. |
25-10-04, 12:24 | #9 |
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We were married for one year 4 months and twelve days before we seperated, we thought we loved each other..but it just was not meant to be, thankfully we did not have any children, would have made things much worse It is still hard for me, I mean I am 26 and divorced...not really proud of that...but nothing I can do about it now.. Now...if only I can find a decent guy.... |
25-10-04, 12:35 | #10 |
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Sorry to hear that for both of you AE and nerdalicious...
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