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Old 19-05-06, 19:53   #1
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Default Would you ever say the L word to anyone?

This is not the L word like calling a woman gay

But I was just wondering, would you ever tell someone the L word? Not someone you've been going out with for some time though... Maybe someone who's a friend of yours and you wanna make something else of your friendship... or someone you just happen to like.

Would you say that?

I don't think I would be able to. I'm afraid of rejections to be honest and then our friendship would start to fade or I'm afraid of scaring them off.

What about you?

Note: That I'm talking about a person whom you've known for sometime, or someone who is a close friend but you want your relationship to be more intmate but haven't gone out with. Not some random person whom you've seen for the first time
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Old 19-05-06, 19:56   #2
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Old 19-05-06, 19:57   #3
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No....I just can't do that.....

Edit: sorry, don't know why I was thinking of calling someone 'lover,' lol....forgive me
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Old 19-05-06, 19:57   #4
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It's huge risk. If it doesn't work out the friendship could be altered in many different ways. However, I would assume a friend would be sympathetic and let me down gently if they didn't feel the same way.
Then again, it could turn out to be one of the best decisions I'd ever made.
I'd take the risk. I couldn't live with myself if I didn't.
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Old 19-05-06, 19:58   #5
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Sure, just be brave...
You never know, maybe that person feels the same way and if you don't tell it to him/her, he/she could go forever with someone else, and you would never know...
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Old 19-05-06, 19:59   #6
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I just made up my mind. Scroll down.

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Old 19-05-06, 19:59   #7
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Of course I would say the L word! Best password you can use to get a woman into bed.
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Old 19-05-06, 20:00   #8
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I don't think I would be able to. I'm afraid of rejections to be honest and then our friendship would start to fade or I'm afraid of scaring them off.
Same with me. I'm damn scared of destroying a good friendship just because of that little annoying L
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Old 19-05-06, 20:02   #9
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Same with me. I'm damn scared of destroying a good friendship just because of that little annoying L
So true. "love" is such a fleeting emotion, it changes along with any change in things like faith, simple precepts that are discussed in philosophy....it is such an abstract way to describe a feeling that one can never be sure of. Why tell someone you love them if you can't understand the word itself? Anyway, that is just me.
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Old 19-05-06, 20:03   #10
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It's huge risk. If it doesn't work out the friendship could be altered in many different ways. However, I would assume a friend would be sympathetic and let me down gently if they didn't feel the same way.
Then again, it could turn out to be one of the best decisions I'd ever made.
I'd take the risk. I couldn't live with myself if I didn't.
It's arisk like you said.

But I don't agree 100% with the part you said "I would assume a friend would be sympathetic and let me down gently if they didn't feel the same way."

Yes they would I'm sure, but a rejection might create that awkwardness that starts to fade your friendship. I know cause it happened to a friend of mine.

But other than that, yours is a very good point
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